HOW'D YOU GET TO WHERE YOU ARE NOW?


Too often we want to do things our way, do it on our own, without help, without care, without consideration of how it will effect of others.  I am here in Utah visiting my daughter who has just had my 2nd grandchild.  It has refreshed my longing to be near my kids.  Sometimes we can get so busy in our own little world of work, missions, and play that we forget about the more important things in life and how we got to where we are.

None of us are an island unto himself... as a matter-of-fact, we are not even a peninsula unto ourselves.  When I was in church this week I heard a comment that stuck with me.  This sister-in-Christ commented that, at times, we forget where we came from.  When we are successful at reaching our goals whether they be physical, mental, spiritual, psychological, economical, societal, or familial, we may forget, or fail to acknowledge that we didn't make it there on our own.

For Example:

*  I am a retired nurse, a Christian vocalist, a Christian, a piano teacher, a director over piano teachers, a neighbor, a mentor, a financial advisor and more.  

*  In order to become a nurse, I needed someone to watch my kids, help me to pay for school, provide finances needed, give me a job, accept me into the nursing program, train me, advise me on what I needed and more.  

*  In order to become a Christian, other Christians witnessed to me and gave me bible study, mentored me, helped me through the hard times, counseled me, prayed for me, and more.  

*  In order to become a Christian vocalist, someone had to be willing to take a chance on hearing me sing, scheduling me for performances, pay me, teach me voice techniques, and more. 

I THINK YOU GET MY POINT!

None of us have gotten where we are without family, friends, mentors, counselors, advisers, babysitters, prayer warriors, pastors, fellowshippers, speakers, influencers, etc.  We did not get where we are on our own.  Although all through the year we should remember those who helped us to get this far, at this time of year when family togetherness is stressed, I would like you to take the time to not just think of family and friends, but all of the peoples, choices, and situations that has caused you to be where you are now.  You may not be in a good place right now or you may be in the best place that you ever thought you would be, or you may just not be exactly where you wanted to be at this point.  

Regardless of where you are, take the time to thank God first for your life in whatever state it is.  Then, thank the people who have helped you to accomplish the things that you have been victorious in and those people who have encouraged you along the way.  Then take the time to think about the choices made and the situations and/or opportunities that have gotten you where you are.  Remember, what you've been successful in wasn't all your own doing.  Even if it means remembering what mama taught you about idleness.  That may have helped you to be a hard worker.  So, remember it and gain the important message in it.

We have a new year coming upon us in 1.5 weeks.  Take the time to plan a new goal for yourself of what you want to accomplish this year as a short term goal and then a 5-year plan of victories you want to have.  Take the time to think about the people that you will need help from to reach those goals, the opportunities that will need to come your way, the finances that will need to be provided for, etc.  Then, thank God, right now, for putting all those things into alignment for you to be victorious this year.  Thank Him ahead of time and believe that He will give you the victory and success that you so deserve.  

In God's word it says in 3rd John 1:2, "Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in health even as your soul prospers..."

That is my prayer for you for this upcoming year.  I pray that you will live VICTORIOUSLY and PROSPER but remember all those who helped you to get there.

Happy New Year!
Your Attitude Decides 
Your Failure or Success




I was doing my devotion and bible study this morning.  I have been studying the book of Exodus for over a year now through "The Abundant Life Bible Amplifier".  It is a practical guide to Abundant Christian Living in the Book of Exodus.  It is by Jon L. Dybdahl.

Well, I was again reading Exodus 19 and 20 of the Bible where God introduced Himself to Israel and wanting to speak face-to-face with them, then gave them His law.

There is a section in each chapter of this book called "Applying The Word".  That is where wisdom stands.  It asked a multi-faceted question, which I've divided into sections for easier viewing:

A.  How do you view the commandments?
B.  Are they a bothersome bunch of regulations, or are they a good gift of God?
C.  Do you see them in the context of your deliverance by God or as a requirement for salvation?
D.  What part of your story do the commands fit into?
E.  Does your history make it hard or easy to obey them?
F.  Why?

These questions caused me to think deep and hard about my life, where I came from, where I am planning on going, what am I planning to do in between, and what my attitude is about God and life itself.

I would like to share just 2 answers that I gave.  "E" and "F" and it is all in one answer.

"My history doesn't make it hard nor easy to obey the commandments.  It is my attitude that does that.  You see, there are many people who have experienced what I have experienced.  There are some who have been raised in orphanages/homes/group homes.  There are many who didn't grow up with a father.  There are many who have been sexually, mentally, emotionally, psychologically abused.  There are many who have been raped.  There are many who have experienced homelessness... with children still on their hips.  There are many who are divorced due to a tragic experience.  There are many who have had broken homes and broken hearts.  These are all things that I have experienced... and more!

What makes the utmost difference is... ATTITUDE.

I decide what kind of person I will be, not my situation(s).  Will I allow my past and my present to turn me, in bitterness and anger, from God who is my present and my future... or do I allow my past to turn me to God in gratefulness and love for Him carrying me through those things.

It is ALL in the attitude of the person.

I decide what kind of person I will be and what kind of attitude that I will walk through this life with.  Am I going to live in defeat or live victoriously!  I am more than a conquerer!"

If we walk through life with an attitude of defeat, we will be defeated everytime because we have already lost the battles for ourselves.  If we walk through life with an attitude of victory, we will have more than a probable chance of being victorious and winning the battles.

You have the same decision to make.  You may be going through the ringer right now and struggling with many unimaginable things that I couldn't even fathom.  But you know what, God Loves You!  If you are God's child, greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world.  YOU ARE MORE THAN A CONQUERER!  We have that ability ONLY through God.

I would like each person reading this article to take the time to read Exodus 19 and 20 before asking themselves those same questions.  It will caused you to really take a deep thought of yourself.