Are You Thankful For What You Possess Or What Someone Has Done?
Are you truly grateful and thankful for what you already have or for what someone has done for you? Have you expressed that thanks? So often we get caught up in what we don’t have that we forget to analyze what we do have and to be thankful for it. Being thankful opens the doors for more blessings to be received.
You gain more bees with honey and more stings with insults! 
If we complain constantly about what isn’t right in our lives, we will lose friends and family and will probably make enemies. People don’t want to hear it! They have enough problems in their own lives than to constantly hear someone rant and rave about why their life isn’t right all of the time.
Does this mean that you shouldn’t speak with anyone about problems that you have?
Of Course It Doesn’t Mean That!
We all need a way of release. You should have friends or a counselor that you can talk to about any of your problems. BUT, do it without complaining. If you are going around complaining all of the time and that is the way you speak… You Need To Learn A New Way Of Speaking! You must learn how to speak in a positive form in order to change your life.
Choose to see the glass as half full instead of half empty!
As you learn to speak positively… even if you don’t feel it at the time… just speak it. You will eventually begin to believe what you are saying and will think more positively. As your thoughts become changed to more positive thoughts, you will begin to behave in a more positive way because… as you think… you will do. Instead of breaking down people, you will be building them up.
As your behavior becomes more positive, your life will be changed into a more positive and desirable outcome and you will keep your friends and probably gain new ones, you will keep your family and they will be happier for the change.
Try a NEW way of speaking today!
Join me next week as we go over how to keep open communication.